The things... The feelings...

Everytime people ask me for my stance on relationships, I tend to avoid those conversations because being an introvert it's not convenient to pour out my heart to everyone. But I don't get the idea that why most of the relationships today have become jokes.
Like for most of the people, the reason for being in a relationship includes : Ohh! This single life is boring, dull and sucks, let's go get in a relationship; Heyy! I need to get over my ex, let's go get in a relationship; and many more foolish reasons like this. I don't know why but being in a relationship is rather becoming a question of status quo nowadays. Rubbish!
Relationship is a connection of feelings of the two.The two people who adore each other; who admire each other; who enjoy each other's company and who are comfortable with each other in all respects. 

Relationships are about trust and understanding each other. I don't get the idea how come two people who at some point made long lasting promises to each other become strangers so smoothly at the other point like it's a piece of cake to forget the lovely bond they once shared. Like they never knew each other ever since. Are feelings lost so damn effortlessly? Or those feelings were never even there at the first place? Is getting detached to someone with whom at one point you shared those magnificent moments of laugh, cry, anger so easy that within a teeny amount of time the person whom you called your world once becomes nothing more than a trash bag? Yes, a trash bag, that's how most of them treat each other after break ups and the things get changed drastically. I ain't saying that all relationships are joke but yeah, most of them have become whimsy and that's how the most of them end. Else, even true long distance relationships are beautiful.

It's not the end that matters, it's the way how the situations become in the end that matters.